I invited the Fancy Girl for a sleepover, which meant two Fancy Days in a row. A Fancy Daze.
The momentum for Fancy Day only continues to swell over time. It reminds me of a gigantic whale-like vision that sucks in expectation and never lets go until we’re done - as if you-just-have-to-hold-your-breath-when-we-have-so-many-cool-things-we-can-do-together.
This, my friends, is the Daze part of Fancy Days.
Yesterday at precisely 2:30 the Fancy Daze began.
A sewing lesson on my mother’s 1931 GE Sew Handy machine started
us off. I melted with nostalgia as it hummed along, just as it did every summer morning at the lake when my mom sewed my
school clothes for the following year. The Fancy Girl practiced stitching on scraps, which led to finishing the edges of a
new kitty blanket to take home:
She decorated designs on big-girl coloring pages, wove a
small basket with soft yarn that looked as if it could be freshly spun (my
favorite project), and painted sun-catchers and mini-portraits to display on easels before inaugurating the sandbox for the season:
After dinner, including two huge servings of bug-shaped
macaroni, she watched Peter Pan with Grampa.
Then following her bath we stitched and stuffed a toy dog from a kit that
came complete with a red satin heart we placed inside his chest:
This morning, after sausage and pancakes, we curled the Fancy Girl's hair in ringlets: "Ohhhhh," she gasped, looking in a hand mirror at a larger reflection. "It's sooooo beautiful!" She pranced into the living room, knowing her next goal: decorating the stuffed dog's shorts and shirt with iron-on soccer motifs so she could give him to her soccer-playing little sister as a surprise.
With the dog finished, she slipped right into the next thing (there’s always a
next thing, right – Gramma, what’s the Next Thing?) which involved coloring and
assembling a 3-dimensional princess with a backdrop. Finally, she dipped an array of fresh and
dried fruits, marshmallows, and pretzels in dark, milk, and white chocolate:
“I wish I could stay another night,” she said when it was
time to go home.
At this point I was almost suffocating.
“But (inhale) wouldn’t you miss your family (exale)?” I
replied, breathing deeply in and out for the first time in hours.
Her response came quickly. “Well sure, I’d miss my family, but
that doesn’t matter if I can be here with you.”
Eureka - melt my heart, Fancy Girl.








