Wednesday, March 5, 2014

Life Song




Our piano tuner makes music with his very presence.  I’m not sure how he does this, but an inaudible melody accompanies him whenever he enters our house.

We’ve known him for over a decade.  He visited again today to re-harmonize ivories with subtle incongruities that would lead to discord if not corrected.  We chatted as usual, and I caught the swell of his optimism as usual.  Even as we spoke I wondered about his everyday lifestyle - if he constantly tunes his own thoughts as a matter of course, correcting sour ones that threaten to sabotage his standard, hopeful song,

“No what-ifs, no if-onlys, no regrets,” he said today in regard to his father’s passing.  His relationship with his dad had been fraught with limitations, but he’d accepted them and worked within existing parameters. He spoke tenderly and respectfully of a hardened man who’d divorced three wives and driven himself to his own death with alcohol.  This was not a song of sorrow, but rather a compassionate score - an inspiring love song of forgiveness and mercy that refused to be tainted by disappointment.

Metaphorically, this man reminds me of an inspiring musical sonata with many interpretative movements.  But in another sense entirely, he resembles an unassuming oyster.  When sharp grains of sand invade, he waits for pearls instead of despairing over the grit. 





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